Too often people acknowledge that man is weak & forget to point out that there are many reasons for that. One of these reasons, I believe, is so simple & obvious that I’m hesitant to even put it out there. But I shall do so:
(Wo)Man is created weak, so that he can seek the Creator, the source of all strength, and become stronger.
Note I used the term stronger & not strong, and that is deliberate… because man cannot ever be ‘strong’ in the sense that he is completely self-sufficient, completely empty of needs, and in sum, completely independent. No, man cannot be that strong on his own. Yet man may, and should, be getting stronger physically, emotionally, intellectually & spiritually all the time. It is a journey, a progress – not a final worldly destination.
Speaking of strength & weakness, C.S. Lewis has an eloquent saying in relation:
“We are far too easily pleased. God wants better things for us.
He finds our desires not too strong, but too weak.”
The truth of this quote especially strikes me at the beginning, and indeed throughout, Ramadan. As I eagerly looked forward to fasting in the blessed month of the Qur’an, the month in which the devil is chained & the gates of forgiveness are wide open – still many around me were expecting me to be in opposite spirits: dreading the 17 hours-a-day fasts. Yet I wasn’t. Why should I be?
Ramadan aside, let’s consider fasting on its own. Fasting in and of itself is not, and never was, solely limited to starving oneself. If all one gets out of a day’s fast is an empty stomach and an irritable attitude, then they haven’t really figured out what it’s all about. It would be absurd to believe that fasting is obligated on a believer simply to make him or her “suffer” for their belief.
Fasting, believe me, is a whole other glorious level than that.
This Ramadan, I confirmed what most people would agree to be true enough – that fasting as an activity itself, is not easy. But fasting has been a source of ease for me. And I cannot have been the only one…
In the Qur’an, fasting and intends for you ease appear in the same verse. Allah (God) does not want to make things difficult for us, merely for us to be grateful…
I pondered on how has fasting been a source of ease for me, and surprisingly the list is very long. Here are only a few examples:
- Easier for me to confront my flaws, with the assurance that He wants & believes that I can overcome them.
- Easier for me to properly prioritize my responsibilities & duties to my loved ones and communities.
- Easier for me to let go of empty attachments that has been previously eating away at my attention, which could have been much better served elsewhere.
- Easier for me to focus on the task at hand, and give it my 100% presence.
- Easier for me to remember that every moment not spent remembering Him is a wasted opportunity. (Oh, those prayer beads traveled every bus & metro ride with me!)
- Easier for me to remember that I am a teacher, and whatever knowledge I have, I should definitely pass it down to the younger members of my precious family.
- Easier for me to spend out of my pocket for others than myself.
- Easier for me to smile, be unnaturally upbeat & optimistic. How can I not be, when my mind is containing an unusual surge of energy in my sleep-deprived & caffeine-lacking body? This can only mean He wants me awake seeking His pleasure. (How pleasant!)
- Easier for me to implement goals and ideas I’d been putting off for way too long. Because honestly, if not now in this golden opportunity of a month, then when?
Truly, fasting is not easy…. but it is a source of ease and a means to challenge ourselves to flex our creativity & faith muscles in areas we didn’t have the guts or “time” to do all year long.
Fasting is a mercy.
To those who celebrated Ramadan: may you & I be several steps closer to God as a result. May we live to witness the next Ramadan in 2016. But until then…
And God knows best.